Untitled Comment
By Aurin ● 2010-03-15 at 9:54 PM
No matter how much your folks bug you about how to live your life, in the end it's your life and you live it the way you want to. Especially, as an adult.
You shouldn't let them bother you too much with what they say and do. My mother nags me all the time about this and that, but she knows in the end no matter what she says, it won't contribute to how I behave or go about my way.
I found that living this way has had 100% better results, financially and socially.
Maybe, it isn't your thing, but what I normally just do is nod and agree with them, but then disregard everything that I agreed to as soon as I part ways with them. I don't bother defending my position or opinions, it's less stressful just to act on them.
Its SO difficult to agree. There was this one incident with my ex(mike), me and our friend(danny) that had a police officer involved. Danny and I had absolutely nothing to do with it. The incident was completely Mike's fault. So after the cop said to Jeff "Compared to Danny, Mike looks like a choir boy."(which was complete bullshit) Jeff told me to never speak to Danny again, etc. I wanted to rage so hard.